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Your February 2018 Postcard from Norm: Message in a Bottle

2/9/2018

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Today, it's my birthday.
 
And although that’s no big deal when you get to my advanced age (I swear that February 9th comes at least twice a year these days!), I wanted to share something personal with you for my February/born-month postcard.
 
As you know (because I won’t shut up about it), I live in the Philippines now. In fact, I’ve lived abroad since 2011, mostly in “Developing” nations where life can get a little wild and crazy sometimes.
 
I also travel a whole lot (last year I took 64 flights (including by charter 3-seat airplane, helicopter, and hot air balloon!) I routinely work 60 hours a week or so, but my job does allow me to work from anywhere there’s Wi-Fi, so I try to take advantage by experiencing as many new and exciting things as I can.
 
Even my neighbors and the staff in my apartment building know the drill by now. They hear a flurry of activity before dawn, see me march out of my room with a big backpack on, and flag down a trike to the airport for the next adventure into the unknown.
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However, the reality of life is that traveling, the pursuit of new experiences, or anything outside of our comfort zone sometimes comes with an element of danger. Then again, there’s danger for everyone in daily life, no matter how mundane. And sometimes, I swear that life abroad in these “crazy” countries is still safer than in the gun and violence-addled United States. But that’s another story.
 
So, what I’m trying to tell you is that I have no idea if I’ll live to 100 years old, will go tomorrow, or some time in between. None of us do.
 
I also don’t know if my expiration will be due to gentle natural causes, sheer old age, boredom, or something more epically memorable, like an elephant sitting on me or my head exploding from eating too many hot chili peppers.
 
That being said, I do exercise extreme caution (although it may not look like it) in regard to where I go, what I do, and just about every other detail of my life. I’m intrepid, but by no means reckless.
 
Still, every time I leave my apartment and head off to swim with sharks, jump out of a plane, join a karate fight camp, or, even more dangerous, go on a date with a Filipina (gasp!), it’s in the back of my mind that one day, I may not come back.
 
That may sound a tinge dire and macabre, but please understand that it’s not. Quite the opposite; we all think about our mortality from time to time, and especially as we get older (and on our birthday). I actually think that’s healthy, as it reminds me to smile, be more compassionate, and appreciate life a little more each day.
 
Sappy clichés aside, if one day when I’m 99 years old I don’t return from one of my adventures, my biggest fear is that I leave my family and friends – and the world – in abrupt silence. In my mind, that would cause them to suffer unnecessarily.
 
I thought about it last year when I was headed off on a trip to the region of Mindanao, which is a little dicey when it comes to Muslim separatists. (They’re known for separating western families from their ransom money and then separating hostages from their heads.) I knew that I was going to a perfectly safe city in that region and wasn’t taking any undue risks, but I still couldn’t help thinking “What if?”
 
So, on the way out of my apartment in the predawn hour, rushing because I was late for my flight, I tore out a piece of notebook paper, grabbed a pen, and scribbled something down.
 
Just in case the one-in-a-billion happened, I wanted to leave some clear indication of how I felt, properly say goodbye, and comfort those left behind.
 
Without time to think, I wrote down everything I needed to say within less than 30 second..
 
Now, don’t get it twisted - THIS isn’t me SAYING goodbye. Hell no. I plan on throwing punches, talking smack, and causing trouble for a long, long time.
 
But, since it’s my birthday and I’m feeling irritatingly optimistic, loved, and sentimental (don’t worry, that will all pass by tomorrow), I thought it was the perfect time to share this letter with you.
 
Only 8 lines and 29 words, I still leave it on the counter in my apartment every time I turn off the lights and shut the door, like my message in a bottle cast off to sea.

It reads, simply:

     
I love you all so much
 
     I’m happy
 
     I’m at peace
 
     And I’ve lived 10 lifetimes already.
 
     Please don’t worry
 
     On to the next adventure
 
     See you soon
 
     [Heart] Norm




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19 Comments
Reilly
2/9/2018 06:02:53 am

What's up brother. I loved the card. I am on the same page with you . Happy Birthday. Hope to catch up again in this lifetime. I have a few more kids for you to meet and take to school, late. Love you. Reilly

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Donna Krohn
2/9/2018 06:16:23 am

Well said Norm! Thank you for sharing - definitely starts my day from a different view. Happy birthday!

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Francine Garcia
2/9/2018 06:42:00 am

Happy Birthday Norm. Thank you for sharing! Watch out for those Filipinas;). It is so nice to have internal peace. Have a blessed year❤️

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Pam
2/9/2018 06:42:45 am

What a great read. Happy Birthday fellow adventurer 😁

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Andrea
2/9/2018 07:25:43 am

Happy Birthday!

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Trish (Martinez) Lopez
2/9/2018 08:13:56 am

Happy Birthday Norm! Long time no see...Be safe but enjoy your adventures.

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Cris Montoya
2/9/2018 08:35:13 am

Happy birthday Norm! I always enjoy your postcards!

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Carl Olson link
2/9/2018 08:47:15 am

Happy Birthday. Mine is in a few days and I am on the same page with you. My grandfather added another line on his stone...."catching up with loved ones". Have a great year my friend.

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Julie Quigley
2/9/2018 09:01:46 am

Happy Birthday Norm!! I love this postcard! Stay Safe!!!

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barbara eble
2/9/2018 10:30:51 am

Hi Norman,
happy birthday for you and thank you for all this postcards.
Love you Aunt B.

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Jeremy Stout
2/9/2018 10:57:48 am

Happy birthday, Norm! Thank you for taking the time to share not only your adventures, but also your wisdom with us. Take care!

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David Stone
2/9/2018 04:22:09 pm

“Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” – Andre Gide

Keep going and sharing my friend.

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Donna
2/9/2018 06:06:36 pm

Awesome! Love reading your postcards! Have a very adventurous Birthday!

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Devon link
2/9/2018 07:28:25 pm

Beautifully put per usual and quite touching. Good on you.

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Kelli
2/9/2018 09:15:42 pm

Happy Happy Birthday!
I love these postcards. Glad you are well and safe travels yo!
💗

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Adriana Pereyra
2/10/2018 05:05:51 am

Happy belated birthday Norm! Love your postcards

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Ophelia
2/11/2018 10:46:52 am

Hello Norm, its a little late but belated Happy Birthday. Enjoy your adventure and I admire you for enjoying life.

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Beatriz Navarro
2/11/2018 09:58:04 pm

Hey Norm! Happy Birthday! Thank you for sharing. We all have different paths in life yet at some point our paths crossed. Keep enjoying life, we are already here so we may as well do our best. Thank you for keeping it real. Un abrazo amigo :)

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Milton R Trice link
2/24/2018 06:56:42 pm

Fascinating post Norm, We’re all glad you made it back in one piece, Happy Birthday ( Youngster )_

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